Blame them for something they didn’t do. Make sarcastic comments (To yourself or others) within said person’s earshot — either about them personally or about a certain sitution in which said person was involved Berate them in front of others for no reason (Whether to friends, family, co-workers or clients) Don’t thank or praise themContinue reading “How to Destroy Someone’s Confidence”
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Our ‘Sorry’ Culture
We live in a culture of saying ‘Sorry’…a LOT. I preface a request while cleaning with, “Sorry, can you hand me the Comet?” instead of, ‘Can I get the Comet, please?’ When my husband and I are playing frisbee and I make a bad throw I say, “Sorry!” In a crowd instead of ‘Excuse me”Continue reading “Our ‘Sorry’ Culture”
Best With Where You’re At
A lot of art, a lot of creativity, a lot of life is really just about doing the best you can with where you’re at. I didn’t understand this as a kid. Or as a young adult. In fact, I think I’m just now getting revelation on some things from the past in regards toContinue reading “Best With Where You’re At”
Gained, Instead of Lost
As things slowly get back to ‘normal’ (Or a new normal) I’m tempted to think of all the things I will lose when things start back up again. Time lost, mostly. I’ll be doing other things so I won’t be able to do all the things I ‘want’ to do and build my skill levelContinue reading “Gained, Instead of Lost”
Confidence & Vulnerability
There’s definitely a piece to this confidence thing that involves humility, vulnerability and risk. I can be vulnerable because I am confident in myself, my art, my style, my God and who He made me to be, my self-expression. I can be vulnerable and share myself, my art, my self-expression, with others because I amContinue reading “Confidence & Vulnerability”
Confidence & Sharing
I feel like this will turn into a book one day. Because I want to share these thoughts with others. I just don’t have the patience to collect everything right now and put it in book form. Also, all books have other people to help the author out. To actually put their random thoughts intoContinue reading “Confidence & Sharing”
Confidence
Confidence. Confidence in what I do, art-wise, business-wise is not necessarily pride. Confidence and Pride are two different things as I felt the Holy Spirit say to me last December (2019). Confidence is not pride. But I get the two confused often and I don’t actually know what confidence is. And how to have it.Continue reading “Confidence”
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